Keep on the firing line of life with these motives and God will keep you unharmed. You should not hesitate to visit the most sordid spot on earth on such an errand. Your job now is to be at the place where you may be of maximum helpfulness to others, so never hesitate to go anywhere if you can be helpful. The answers will come IF your own house is in order. 164 Ask Him in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. 87 – 88 ALL DAY As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. We are careful never to pray for our own selfish ends. We especially ask for freedom from self-will, and are careful to make no requests for ourselves only We may ask for ourselves, however, if others will be helped. 87 MORNING We usually conclude the period of mediation with a prayer that we be shown all through the day what our next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to take care of such problems. 86 MORNING In thinking about our day, “We ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or decision”. 86 MORNING Before we begin our day, “we ask god to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives”. 86 NIGHT After mediation on the day just completed, “We ask God’s forgiveness and inquire what corrective measures should be taken”. “How can I best serve Thee–Thy will (not mine) be done”. 85 Everyday is a day when we must carry the vision of God’s will into all our activities.

When these crop up, we ask God at once to remove them. 84 Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment and fear. 83 FAMILY – So we clean house with the family, asking each morning in meditation that our Creator show us the way of patience, tolerance, kindliness and love. 82 INFIDELITY – Each might pray about it, having the other one’s happiness uppermost in mind. 80 OTHERS EFFECTED – If we have obtained permission, have consulted with others, asked God to help.

79 LEGAL MATTERS – We ask that we be given strength and direction to do the right thing, no matter what the personal consequences might be. 76 If we haven’t the will to do this, we ask until it comes. Grant me strength, as I go out from here, to do Your bidding. I pray that You now remove from me every single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness to you and my fellows. 76 My Creator, I am now willing that You should have all of me, good and bad. 76 If we still cling to something we will not let go, we ask God to help us be willing. 75 we ask if we have omitted anything, Sixth Step 75 We thank God from the bottom of our heart that we know Him better. 70 SEX – To sum up about sex: We pray for the right ideal, for guidance in each questionable situation, for sanity and for strength to do the right thing. 69 SEX – In meditation, we ask God what we do about each specific matter. 69 SEX – We asked God to mold our ideals and help us live up to them. 68 FEAR – We ask Him to remove our fear and direct our attention to what He would have us be. How can I be helpful to him? God save me from being angry. When a person offended we said to ourselves, “This is a sick man. 67 RESENTMENT – We asked God to help us show them the same tolerance, pity, and patience that we would cheerfully grant a sick friend.

Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love and Thy Way of Life. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. 63 – God, I offer myself to Thee – to build with me and do with me as Thou wilt. 59 We asked His protection and care with complete abandon. “I earnestly advise every alcoholic to read this book through, and though perhaps he came to scoff, he may remain to pray.” William D.

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